Also- learn more about where Orgasmic Meditation comes from, and how it all started! Sheri believes in expanding fun, friendship and sex through a new model of orgasm; a model based on female orgasm that is inclusive and has people win. By advancing the sensual frontier in her own life for over 25 years, she has experienced what it takes to have continuously gratifying relationships and live a fun life.
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Orgasmic meditation is practiced in pairs, with one practitioner stroking the genitals of the other, and both focusing their attention on the sensation with the stated goal of developing connective resonance between them. Although the practitioners can be of either sex, the focus of orgasmic meditation seems to be on the female orgasm through subtle and deliberate stimulation of the clitoris see Wikipedia on orgasmic meditation. The result is said to be therapeutic, rather than sexual.
For some women, orgasms are a unicorn that rarely deigns to visit. And for the rest of women who experience orgasms, it is rarely on an ongoing and steady basis. Sexual pleasure for women is as much a matter of how we feel in our mind as a matter of how we feel in our body.
In the first, guest blogger Justine — the hero of our story — gets a crash-course in the delicious frustration of ruined orgasm. Subscribe here to get updated when new blogs go live, and then enjoy part one of this ruined orgasm story. Thanks to the gorgeously-voiced Sarah Jane marvydarlingwho blogs at Marvelous-Darling.
And if anything below shocks or appalls you, please ask yourself: why does this make me so uncomfortable? Dig into the discomfort. Looking inward before lashing outward is good for the world. I love intimacy, but my biology craves novelty….
The site is called How To Make Me Come and contains more than 70 essays written anonymously by women. And some gave advice to men looking for tips on how to give the ladies in their lives better orgasm:. Anyone interested in reading all 72 essays can find them here.
Not for those who easily blush, this was the actual subject of a recently published research study. The question they wanted to answer was whether the noises a woman makes during sex are voluntary or a reflex, or consequence, of orgasm. The researchers were interested in exploring the relationship between sexual vocalizations and orgasm. Their primary question was whether such vocalizations were an involuntary reflex of orgasm or associated with orgasmor whether they were independent of the act of reaching climax.